I've been having a rough couple of days because I've been contemplating on some thoughts about my friends. I have this complex where I usually go into hiding whenever I have problems. I go for weeks and even months without talking to my closest friends about my problems.
But let me ask you one question.
What if this certain friend of yours is your problem?
What I usually do is cut this person out of my life. However, seeing that this person has been a friend of mine for years, I am forced to reconsider. It's hard to be a good friend when you know that person is already abusing you. You can see it as well as other people do but you can't seem to do anything about it because that person is your friend.
Well, let me tell you one thing.
Some people are not so stupid.
I'm not the type of person who depends on other people for anything. I don't depend on others for money, transportation, food, clothes, etc... I try my best to gather my own things. In short, I am NOT SPOILED. I know my limitations.
If you wanna be a good friend, you should know your limitations too.
In my earlier post, I mentioned that I hate social climbers. These are people who spend money trying to look as good as the people around them. They succumb to the pressures that the so-called "high society" gives to people. These are people who resort to drastic measures just to be part of the "group". Even within a group of friends, at least one person is bound to try his/her best to be able to afford the same brand of clothing, gadgets, shoes, etc... I guess it comes with deprivation.
Even friends can resort to theft, dishonesty, and abuse just to satisfy their hunger for climbing the social ladder.
It's sad, really.
In this world, you can't really trust anyone. Not even your friends.
(I can trust my boyfriend though <3)
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